You meet someone on a dating site/app and they tell you they are "clean"--ie free from disease. And you believe them? You believe them because you think they look healthy when HIV can have a decade long incubation period during which there are no physical symptoms? There's an easy way to prevent the spread of HIV. Condoms. You are responsible for protecting your own @ss and what goes into it. Men can often be pigs and men are liars--especially when horny. If you protect yourself, there's no need to blame anyone else.
How College Wrestling Star “Tiger Mandingo” Became An HIV Scapegoat